First Dating

We first met at Chancellor College while we were in first year. We became close friends since second year and to date we have been dating for 10 years. As such we have grown from "toddlers" to adults together.

The Engagement

Our engagement was a traditional but private ceremony that took place on 8th September, 2013 in the capital city of Malawi, Lilongwe. It was a great ceremony that involved our two family sides meeting officialy for the first time.

The main ceremony was purery traditional and involved the usual stuff with extras:

  • The traditional chicken sharing.
  • The ring ceremony.
  • Houseware presentation
  • Dressing the bride-to-be
  • Luncheon
  • Chatting

Engagement Highlights


Patrick's brother Chris chats with uncles over a meal.


This is us smiling and laughing. It was all about humorous chats.

Big Mama

A pose with Patrick's mother.

Master Chefs?

Monica's sisters, Edith and Ruth took care of the people with a delicious meal.